You know something has to change. You're just not sure what comes next.

For women navigating divorce, relocation, identity shift, or any moment when the old way of living no longer fits — and the new one isn’t clear yet.

Maybe your relationship ended. Maybe you relocated, changed careers, or watched your children leave. Maybe nothing dramatic happened — and yet something inside has quietly shifted.

You’re still functioning. Still managing. But underneath, there’s a feeling you can’t quite name. Like you’ve outgrown something — but don’t yet know what you’re growing into.


 

You’re not looking for someone to fix you or tell you what to do.

You want to feel steady again. To trust your own thinking. To stop second-guessing yourself. To know — clearly — what direction you’re moving in.

Hi, I’m  Lola 

 

After divorce, relocation, years of putting everyone else first — or simply that quiet feeling that something needs to change — I know what it means to be in that in-between space.

I work with women who are exactly here. Not through motivation or quick fixes. Through honest, grounded work that helps you find your own footing again and build a life that actually feels like yours.

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How we work

We start where you are — not where you think you should be. The work is different for every woman. But a few things are always true.

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Clarity in conversation

Everything starts with conversation. We talk about where you feel stuck, overwhelmed, angry, lost, or unsure what to do next. Many people don’t need advice. They need clarity, honesty, and space to think out loud and understand their own life better.

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Boundaries and structure

Then we work on real life: decisions, boundaries, priorities, routines and structure. Change does not happen only in conversation. It happens when you start saying no, making decisions, changing habits, and organising your life differently.

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Between sessions

The work does not pause when the conversation ends. Between sessions, you have voice-message support — for the things that surface before we speak again. That is often where the real shift happens.

Meditation, somatic awareness, or simple grounding practices may be part of our work –  always shaped around what you need in the moment.

 

If something here feels familiar

Some women come because they feel lost. Some because they’re going through divorce or a major life change. Some because everything feels like too much — in their head, their schedule, or their home.

We simply start where you are.

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"She has this incredible ability to express herself so authentically that I could feel and understand every word. She never looked shocked by anything I shared, and she made me feel truly safe. My confidence has grown so much, and I feel better about myself and the decisions I'm making. I feel safer knowing that if I'm going through anything in life, I can always go back to her."
Jacqueline Jaafar
Singer
"Eleonora brings such a graciousness and nurturing to her coaching. She has a gentleness as she holds me through any emotion which allows me to feel seen and drop into exploring parts of myself without shame or judgement. I always leave her sessions noticing something new about myself, and with a positive shift towards becoming who I want to be. I highly recommend her coaching if you are feeling out of place within yourself and want support from someone who just gets it. "
Molly Press
Life coach
"Eleonora Lola Doban has a warm and genuine way of connecting with people that makes them feel truly seen, heard, and understood. She creates a safe and supportive space where meaningful reflection can happen naturally. After being coached by her, I felt greater clarity and a sense of calm about my own thoughts and direction. Her ability to listen deeply, ask thoughtful questions, and hold space with compassion makes her coaching presence both gentle and powerful. I believe Eleonora has a natural gift for helping others navigate personal growth and change."
Dr. Topoyame Moremong-Nganunu.
Mining Industry Wellbeing Coach

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